move validator from callback to action interactor and to the api controller

app/controllers/api/v1/registrant/contacts_controller.rb

@@ -144,6 +144,10 @@ module Api
         def update_and_notify!(contact)
           contact.transaction do
             contact.save!
+
+            contact.validate_email_by_regex_and_mx
+            contact.remove_force_delete_for_valid_contact
+
             action = current_registrant_user.actions.create!(contact: contact, operation: :update)
             contact.registrar.notify(action)
           end