Update Netty version

This seems to fix the FOSS test timeout.

Also use the static-linked netty-tcnative library in tests to ensure that
OpenSSL provider is always available in tests. In production, we should use
the dynamic-linked version to reduce binary footprint and relay on system
OpenSSL library.

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Created by MOE: https://github.com/google/moe
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javatests/google/registry/proxy/BUILD

@@ -14,6 +14,9 @@ java_library(
         "testdata/*.xml",
         "quota/testdata/*.yaml",
     ]),
+    runtime_deps = [
+        "@io_netty_tcnative_boringssl_static",
+    ],
     deps = [
         "//java/google/registry/proxy",
         "//java/google/registry/util",